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Understanding as to why unique is better than a constant struggle of being beautiful

In this age of internet, where social media is everything, and a cure to each and every one of your problems, it also has the power to frustrate you at some point in your life.

For example, scrolling through the pictures of instagram models, and you wondering, why your life isn’t like this, or why you don’t look so flawlessly beautiful as them, while munching on a packet of cips. And you find yourself, get up and look at the mirror, wondering, “why do I look so ugly.” And again heading off to your sofa, because you think, you are never going to be like them, so you continue munching your chips anyways.

And you continuosly find yourself, going back to different models, and checking an criticising yourself, and dreaming on how you wish your body would be like them, whilst continuosly checking in the mirror, and feeling frustrated because, you think you still look ugly

Don’t you think you are just trying to be someone else, when doing that?

And by being like someone else, you would feel okay in the beginning, but slowly it will start frustrating you.

And it will frustrate you because yo think you are exactly like them, but you don’t look like them, or you don’t have a similar lifestyle to them, and that would hurt you from the inside.

I have my role models, and trust me, I have been through that stage, but one thing that I noticed from all of my role models, was that they all were unique in their own way, and that was the sole reason they were my role models. And my friends hadtheir own set of role models, some in common and some I didn’t even know about, or some whom I didn’t like much. So, I realised we all have different point of views towards people. And this was very frustrating as I was tryingto understand, why my favourite role models, weren’t like that much by my friends, and yet I always wished I was like them. I understood, besides the body and face, there was something much more I had to learn about things.

It was time to find peace within myself, instead of looking it on the outside.

It was time to find peace within myself.

And how being unique changed me completely:

1. It helps you get rid of frustration:

Once you start being yourself, it will slowly help you accept yourself, and get rid o that frustrated feeling you have been keeping inside of you, whenever you look at yourself in the mirror.

2. It helps you become self-sufficient and self-dependent.

You will slowly realise, everything is under your control, especially your life, and your body, and the way you look no, is exactly the way you are supposed to look, because that is what defines you.

When you look at yourself, you will see that brave person, who has come up to this day, and left behind many memories, and different experiences. Your experiences define you, and that is what makes you unique.

3. Brings out the original you:

After sometime, you will realise that you are starting to be yourself, and learn thngs about you, which you didn’t know, orconsider before. Becuase you are slowly becoming your original self.

Happiness will start taking part in your life very often, becauseyou are starting to feel happy in your ow skin.

4. You will learn to pamper yourself:

1. Now that you are happy in your own skin, you will become your own bestfriend, and would want to take care of yourself, and try to give your body nourishing things. And you will know, what things makes your body really happy.

We all have read somewhere or the other, that our body is our temple, it will start to make sense only now, that you are exploring more about you.

5. Ability to make wise decisions:

As I said earlier, that you would realise, that you are your own best-friend, you will start asking finding solutions on your own, and won’t be needing somebody else to solve problems fo you. You wold what things are good for you, and which are not.

6. You will find peace within yourself:

The next time you are scrolling througt those gorgeous instagram models, you would only find yourself saying, “wow! They look beautiful.” , and really mean it, and it won’t affect you, because you know, you are beautiful too, in your own unique way.

Because, you would know, what self-contentment feels like, and it can do magic to your body and your life.

I have made a video on youtube, where I have written a letter explaining myself, on why unique is better than a constant struggle of being beautiful.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bi-csSB58pI

Have an amazing day ahead.